I have a similar concern. I have configured my Today screen to show birthdays and anniversaries each time PC v11.5 opens. One of the things that is so annoying is to see the birthday of our deceased. We print every person's birthday in our monthly bulletins but we exclude the deceased and in-active ones from our reports. But I used the Today screens to know who to make a call to today. I have gone so far as to uncheck the "Include in Membership Module Reports"
on the Family "Profile" but this doesn't work for the Today screen.
Also I am cautious about this because it only works if no one else in that family are actively involved in our church.
Please, is there any way to prevent the deceased birthdays from showing on the Today screen without removing the birthday? I know I could type them into the Notes section and maintain that information but I would prefer to accomplish this systemically?